Choosing Kindness and Love
Today, I’m choosing to believe the best. Give the benefit of the doubt. Not assume. And, yes, especially to “be kind, tenderhearted, forgiving, even as God, for Christ’s sake, forgave me.” The noise all around us is deafening. In the midst of it all, what would happen if we chose over and over again, every moment, to love each other well and believe the best? Whether the other person thinks the way you think or lands on the complete opposite end of the spectrum, whether they act and react and conclude what you’ve concluded or not? Whether they make the same or the exact opposite choice? What if we took no offense? At all? What if we assumed they landed there based on careful and intelligent research instead of through ignorance or a failure, inability, or obstinate choice not to think it through? What if we swallowed our own pride and stopped assuming we’re right? What if we actually stopped accusing one another of selfishness, fear, ignorance, and scolding, and instead embr...